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infidelity is seen as one of the worst betrayals facing the couple and it is generally believed that the infidel is the culprit, however, infidelity is just the result of crisis couple and this is not just sexual because the unfaithful spouse will seek aspects that your partner gives you and these can be intellectual, sexual, physical and emotional .

male infidelity is socially accepted, but the woman is always punished and in some cases will result in separation. It's a cultural issue. The man feels humiliated when they are deceived. They usually go through several stages to pass thought he was misled by being less of a man, they doubt their intelligence or their value as people, you also get the macho in when they think "they are all equal" which can lead to create a bad concept of women and keep resentments that prevent healthy relationships.

One of the first emotions that invade the man who faces a infidelity is anger. Then comes a depression and low self-esteem Which if not resolved can bring negative consequences . The deception causes man feel betrayed and deceived, so think end the relationship.

Another aspect hurts to know that the couple has established a bond with someone else. This is devastating for them by the patriarchal culture and macho , perceived as a mockery , is a blow to their self-esteem socially and questions his manhood, pity him or think is stupid because he cheated. In extreme cases, can react with violence when anger becomes aggression. These negative emotions be working internally or with professional if necessary, to heal the wound and start an open and available.

dialogue is very important to the couple, a couple is two, is not healthy reproach, blame, everyone should review their actions and take responsibility, nothing justifies a lie or a deception. We all deserve to be treated with respect, both men and women.
is important forgiveness, this is the first step in what will come, it is very hard to move on with resentment for what they decide to go ahead with a partner or separated should be on good terms.

Infidelity is not a gender issue. It's no different than deceive be fooled, the unfairness always hurts.

This break in couples product infidelity is a very common reason for consultation. Even an issue on the rise, due inter alia to the growing eroticism manifested through the media and advertising. It also influences the greater incorporation of women into the work, which opens the request to them to know more people, and they have more temptations in their environment work to be infidels.

The vast majority infidelity can be overcome, it is essential that prior to the act of infidelity and marriage the couple have maintained a stable and deep, capable of facing a problem of this magnitude. If there is a link based on commitment and a deep love infidelity can be overcome, more than ninety percent of cases, with or without support from couples therapy. Having a stable and assume mutual recognition of their responsibilities before the break is essential to start a couples therapy, aimed at overcoming infidelity.

After discovering out of this crisis were not known at all, they discovered in themselves and in a couple new things, like an erotic fantasy that never before had commented. It is common after a the couple therapy deepens the relationship and become more accomplices. Major crisis hurt much, but are instances and opportunities to do better than how it was before.