Human beings are remarkably social. From birth the instinct to live in society, is part of our genetic codes and sense of conservation. We feeling rejected or discriminated against because of race, gender, age, nationality, sex, religion or other political, economic and social.
addition, we may feel excluded by our fellow students, work and even within our families for siblings, parents or children or by the spouse when there is separation in the pair.
In all these cases the feeling experienced is on disability and pain.
why the person is afraid of rejection?
Some of his reasons:
have a negative opinion of themselves because they never felt fully accepted in their families.
have had a traumatic experience of rejection, for example, teasing continued for some physical defect in childhood abandonment.
They feel insecure in their personal identity, which is why they have no confidence in themselves.
have never been exposed to non-confrontational ways to manage the discussions and disagreements.
not have the social skills needed to cope with a reference group.
have suffered from social isolation in childhood.
think that lack certain personal skills should be kept away from others, helping to increase its lack confidence in themselves.
are not aware that they are working on the basis of fear of rejection and may even deny it if someone tells.
have a physical defect that makes them consider unattractive to others.
Wendy Syndrome may be defined as the set of behaviors that makes a person for fear of rejection, and need to feel accepted and supported, and fear no one / to want. In short, by a security imperative.
soul pain, psychological pain, shocking to the body as physical pain.
why the person is afraid of rejection?
Some of his reasons:
have a negative opinion of themselves because they never felt fully accepted in their families.
have had a traumatic experience of rejection, for example, teasing continued for some physical defect in childhood abandonment.
They feel insecure in their personal identity, which is why they have no confidence in themselves.
have never been exposed to non-confrontational ways to manage the discussions and disagreements.
not have the social skills needed to cope with a reference group.
have suffered from social isolation in childhood.
think that lack certain personal skills should be kept away from others, helping to increase its lack confidence in themselves.
are not aware that they are working on the basis of fear of rejection and may even deny it if someone tells.
have a physical defect that makes them consider unattractive to others.
Wendy Syndrome may be defined as the set of behaviors that makes a person for fear of rejection, and need to feel accepted and supported, and fear no one / to want. In short, by a security imperative.
soul pain, psychological pain, shocking to the body as physical pain.
When a situation of rejection is present, the reaction process and psychological healing this wound is given almost equal to that of a physical injury. If this rejection includes hatred and anger will worsen the pain, just like a physical wound became infected.
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If this pain with alcohol or drugs is as if a physical injury or disease treated with analgesics only and does not implement a drug treatment. The consequences are that the injury or physical pain is not alleviated. Also happen if we assume the same attitude towards the psychological pain.
If we isolate ourselves to get depressed or mental pain, psychological, weaken the immune system and other diseases will emerge. We assume the psychological healing by using our self-esteem and the power of our mind to overcome obstacles like, course and as far as we can, support from family and friends.
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